In Secondary Craft School in Samobor was held on 15th of May 2008 the last, fifth in a row, public discussion entitled "Silence is not Golden" on teen-dating violence. The venue was full and around 100 young men and women were anxious to hear famous TV presenter and actress Iva Šulentić and singer Emina Arapović speak. Iva and Emina shared with young people their view on quality relationships and warned them about  "invisible" types of violence such as emotional and psychological violence in relationships. If someone calls you hundred times a day checking where are you or with whom, is a sign of control and possesiveness and not love, said Iva and Emina. Students had a lot of questions for our guests and some of them were: how would they deal with the violence in a relationship and what are their strategies of defence from violent fans.